Distinguished Excellencies,
Dear colleagues and friends,
It is a great honor and privilege to be in Budapest today at the 5th Demographic Summit.
At the very beginning, I want to thank her excellency President Katalin Novak for the invitation, as well as for the opportunity to address this important gathering.
I also congratulate you on a successful organization, as well as on your commitment to this important topic, on which the future of our peoples, countries, and the whole of Europe most directly depends.
I believe that the
very concept of this year's summit - the
family as the key to security - is very effective and carefully chosen.
Unfortunately,
in Europe, which is facing a very serious demographic crisis, this topic is not
given enough attention.
The
importance of gatherings like this one in Budapest is thus all that greater, as well as our obligation to try to draw public attention to the challenges in the field of demography that are common
to almost all European countries.
If demography
is the key to our survival
- and I believe we agree that this is an elementary biological fact -
then the family is certainly a prerequisite for a stable
demographic development.
A strong
family, based on marriage as the union of a man and a woman, and not any
variation on the theme, is the foundation of a successful society.
If a country
records negative natural growth and extremely unfavorable demographic trends
for a long period of time, this may lead to numerous disturbances in its
functioning in the future.
And of course, facing such challenges requires a comprehensive
overview of their causes,
and not only by competent institutions, but also by the professional community, the media, the academic community, the civil sector, that is, by society
as a whole.
Discussions
about demography and pro-natal policies are often reduced exclusively to
financial or material aspects.
And of course,
governments define
certain measures, allocate money, create tax incentives, provide various
benefits, give favorable loans to young married couples, help them solve the
housing issues,
and so on.
This material
or financial segment is very important and indispensable for any
country that approaches this issue seriously.
Just as a
certain existential and financial
security is
important for starting and expanding a family.
However, if financial security and a good standard of living were the only
prerequisites for demographic development, then we probably wouldn't even be
talking about this topic in Europe, at least not in this way.
How to
explain that most countries with a high standard of living, including almost
all European ones, record negative rates of natural growth, while in less
developed countries in the rest of the world the birth rates are so much higher?
This clearly
indicates that the causes of the demographic crisis are much deeper and more
complex than it may seem at first glance.
One of the
main causes is the crisis
of the family, which is
again conditioned by modern cultural and value patterns.
We have
witnessed that in recent decades, all traditional institutions, from the
family, through religious communities, to the sovereign state, are under strong attacks.
Value systems
that are not compatible with our traditional values are constantly being
imposed on our countries and peoples through contemporary culture, mainstream
media and various international, governmental and non-governmental
organizations.
Any
authenticity is perceived as hostile, and all those who do not fit into these
globalist and liberal narratives are exposed to criticism, pressure, and various
restrictive measures.
There is a tendency for a cultural and political unification of states and
peoples, within which we should take over the identity of others and renounce our own.
In such a
world, there is no place for the promotion of family values. But on the other side, there is so much room for
aggressive propaganda and promotion of the rights of those who do not belong to
the traditional family concept where the family is based on the union of a man
and a woman and their male and female children.
If one asks
a logical question - where does all
this lead,
you
will immediately be labeled as a homophobe, an extremist and someone who does not
respect human and minority rights; and all this without
deep reflection, without any discussion or dialogue.
You will be treated in the same way if you openly say that it is nonsense
and obvious absurdity to define father and mother as parent one and parent
two or to define gender as something
which is merely a matter of choice.
The molds of the so-called “political correctness”
limit our right to ask questions and delegate topics of fundamental importance
for our future and our
societies.
However, this
does not lessen our responsibility to oppose such intentions even more
decisively.
And if we speak about
freedom of choice then we, too, should
be very vocal in promoting the traditional family pattern.
An equally
important task is to understand the essence of radical individualism and
self-sufficiency, which have become a trend throughout Europe, including our
countries.
I believe
that there lies at least a part of the answer to the question why many young
people do not consider starting a family at all; which
is why, year after year, there are fewer and fewer marriages, and more and more
divorces.
It takes a
lot of effort, will and dedication to answer these questions, and even more to
offer adequate solutions. The fight for demographic renewal does not imply a
battle on one front, but on multiple fronts.
Of course, it
is important to offer the young people who want to start families an overall stimulating environment in society: stable economic conditions, well-paid jobs, well-organized
health and educational systems
and a peaceful and
safe environment.
It is
obviously also necessary that institutions
create and implement effective pro-natal policies, in order to help young people to have their offspring.
But it is
also necessary to revitalize the role of the family and promote its most
beautiful values in public, culture and education.
It is
important to show that starting a marriage and creating a family is not a
burden, nor a rejection of personal comfort, but the progress of growth of each individual through the community.
I have met
many wonderful, harmonious and successful multi-child families throughout the Republic of Srpska. I
remember the words of a mother of eight children who jokingly, yet honestly,
told me that it was much easier for her now with eight than
it used to be with two
children. The
reason was that the older children had grown up in the meantime, so they took
care of the youngest.
Meetings like
this motivated me, while serving as
the Prime Minister of the
Republic of Srpska, to propose introducing
a monthly salary for
all unemployed new mothers where they exercise this right for 12 months, or 18 months for
twins and every third and subsequent child. Families with
one unemployed parent with
four or more children in Republika Srpska are entitled to a monthly allowance as long as one
of the children is a minor. As well, there are other measures to assist the family
such as one-time
assistance for the equipment of the newborn, free of charge procedures of in vitro fertilization, free textbooks for our primary
school pupils, but also a subsidized interest rate on mortgages for young
couples.
We are also
very grateful to the Hungarian government for sharing their experiences with us
at the time when we were improving our programme of pro-natal measures.
Hungary is a great example of a country that deals with the demographic issue in a serious
and comprehensive way. It is exactly what
this excellently organized, now
already traditional,
demographic summit testifies to.
It is very
important that we talk about this topic, that we connect with each other and
that we learn from each other.
We should be all
aware that by neglecting the family we will neglect our demography and
subsequently our future.
And we must
never allow something like that to
happen. This summit serves as a reminder of our duties to preserve the family
and traditional values if we want to have a successful future for our countries.
Thank you for
your attention!